How Can I Tell If My Partner Is Cheating?

Readers of the blog often send me their questions about sex and relationships, and one that I’ve heard several times recently concerns infidelity and whether there are any reliable indicators or red flags that your partner might be unfaithful. For example, one reader asked: “How can you tell if your man is cheating? What are the signs to look for?”

I answered this question in the form of a brief video, which you can watch below. Check it out, and if you have questions you’d like me to answer in a future post or video, please send them to me through the form on this page.

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