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Dr. Justin Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years.

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Sexology Changemakers: Evelyn Hooker

April 4, 2024 by Zoe Moscovici

In popular retellings of the history of sex research, we tend to hear a lot about figures such as Sigmund Freud, Alfred Kinsey, and William Masters. While their work was obviously incredibly influential, many other individuals who made important contributions to the field are often left out of the story. One essential, yet underrecognized trailblazer...

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Sexology Changemakers: Evelyn Hooker
Sexology Changemakers: Kimberlé Crenshaw
Sexology Changemakers: Kimberlé Crenshaw

March 28, 2024 by Emily Mendelson

Kimberlé Crenshaw is an African American civil rights activist and one of the foremost scholars on critical race theory and Black feminist legal theory. Her work on intersectionality has had...

Gender, Psychology
Sexology Changemakers: Dr. June Dobbs Butts
Sexology Changemakers: Dr. June Dobbs Butts

March 21, 2024 by Merissa Prine

In the annals of sex research, there are many unsung heroes whose contributions have shaped our understandings and practices related to sexuality today. Among them stands Dr. June Dobbs Butts,...

Media & Culture, Sex Ed
Is It Possible To “Over-Swipe” On Dating Apps?
Is It Possible To “Over-Swipe” On Dating Apps?

March 6, 2024 by Emily Mendelson

It’s estimated that the average American looking for love online will swipe almost 4,000 times on a dating app before finding a romantic partner. This number is a bit lower...

Dating & Relationships, Media & Culture
The Key to Keeping The Sexual Spark Alive: The Importance of Self-Expansion
The Key to Keeping The Sexual Spark Alive: The Importance of Self-Expansion

February 28, 2024 by Merissa Prine

Maintaining a vibrant and fulfilling sexual relationship requires effort, communication, and a deep understanding of each other’s needs and desires. Over time, couples often report declines in their level of...

Dating & Relationships, Psychology, Sex Tips
Sexology Changemakers: Virginia Johnson
Sexology Changemakers: Virginia Johnson

February 21, 2024 by Zoe Moscovici

In the history of sex research, the first names to come up are often Sigmund Freud, Alfred Kinsey, or William Masters.  However, history tends to overlook important women and people...

Books & Films, Psychology
Can a TikTok Trend Determine Your Relationship Quality?
Can a TikTok Trend Determine Your Relationship Quality?

February 14, 2024 by Emily Mendelson

Did preparing for Valentine’s Day feel a little extra stressful this year? If so, you might have social media (and, in particular, TikTok) to blame. For example, among the many...

Dating & Relationships, Media & Culture
Tell Me What You Want

Tell Me What You Want

Discover what the largest survey of sexual fantasies in America tells us about the erotic mind – and how to have a healthier, hotter sex life.

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Take a deep dive into the psychology of sex and relationships. This is the sex ed you never got in school – and won’t get anywhere else.

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